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[Nick]

Hi all,

Somewhat sensitive topic for all men out there facing this same situation in their lives.

We’ve filled our home with the miracle of new life 3 times over, and naturally the topic of future family growth has come up between my wife and I.

It would seem to me that the children choose to come into the world through us, at its most basic level, when we’re spiritually ready to accept them (not so much consciously ready). I believe this because our children have come to us at very interesting times, not dictated by our sexual activity. For example our first was conceived within a week of completing the build and moving into our first family home, even though there was no additional emphasis placed on the conception process by my wife and I. There has to be something to this, and to that end i would naturally assume that once our home is full of new life, to the extent that my wife and i are spiritually incapable of fostering any further additions, that the gates would close so to speak. As much as the reality of this statement could be questioned, to me there must be something more than just the physical act dictating the process.

Back to the topic at hand. No judgement to those that have taken the path of a Vasectomy, but to me even the thought of it triggers an overwhelming physical unease. There has to be a reason my body reacts to the thought of such a procedure like this.

The mainstream internet yields little in the way of explaining the true implications of this procedure, so i’m looking to the wonderful community to understand how this kind of procedure can impact men on the physical, emotional and spiritual level.

My initial thought here is that you are impeding the flow of that sacred fluid, which would in some way impact the essence of what it is to be a man. Is there potentially a connection here with Vasectomy and prostate issues later in life? does it affect hormones and create more docile men lacking purpose?

It’s such a common but little talked about procedure, i really want to understand more about the impact this procedure may be having on men as a whole.

Thanks all, any feedback welcome 🙂

Nick

Discussion

[Gary]

Nick, I agree with your thoughts on this. Intuitively I don’t think it’s a good procedure to have done. Cutting off your creative life force potential doesn’t seem right to me. At the end of the day everyone needs to make the choice that feels right for them, and for me, I will never get the procedure done.

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